Constantly pick the children up late or return them late

Keep the children overnight despite limitations

Takes advantage of vague points in the plan to seize more time with the children

Schedules activities with the children during your time with them

Bad-mouths you in front of the children

If your ex is disregarding these or any other specific details in your unique parenting plan, you have several options to pursue.

• Send a letter from your attorney to your ex. This should be your first step, as a legal expert can verify that your spouse is not abiding by the agreement, and can follow up with a forceful letter that reminds them of the potential legal penalties that could arise if they continue.
• Request mediation services. Contact the court and schedule an appointment with their Family Services Office. You and your ex may be able to work out your problems with the help of mediators without going to court. If not, you will have another expert opinion to help you reinforce any future cases.
• Ask the judge for modification. If your ex has been repeatedly breaking the parenting agreement, you may be in a position to request changes to the arrangement, such as a different parenting times or lengths. Your spouse will also be reminded, during this time, of the force behind the original order.
• File a motion for contempt of court. This action will require the other parent to appear in court and explain why they broke the agreement. The judge may levy fines or sanctions, and future disregard can be forestalled.
• Call the police. Only use this as a last resort, if you believe your children are in danger or are being kept from you by your spouse. Have a certified copy of the parenting agreement on hand to show authorities to support your claims.

No matter what course of action you choose, document every single instance of your ex-spouse’s disregard, with notes and dates and times, and obtain witness testimonies or school attendance records as applicable. Never retaliate by breaking the agreement yourself, and consult with legal experts should the situation progress. For expert legal counsel now, schedule a free consultation with Simon Law Group and start moving forward with you plans with the help of an experienced attorney. Contact Craig J. Simon and Simon Law Group at [email protected] or (480)745-2450 for a no fee consultation to determine what is best for you.]]>